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Tuesday, March 22, 2011
Let's Just Be Friends
I know you may read this title and think what am i talking about. I will tell you what I'm talking about here's the scenario. A guy meet a beautiful woman he finds her very pretty and sexy. He likes her and wants to get to know her. So he starts doing all these nice things for her to get her attention and to get her to like him. The idea sounds good on paper but in reality it doesn't work. Why doesn't it work because she doesn't feel any attraction for him. He does these nice things for her for a while and then finally gets up the courage to ask her out for coffee or on a date. He's thinking that she's going to say yes but then she says I like you but only as a friend and then she says let's just be friends. How do i know what I'm talking about because I've been there way too many times as sad as it is. After a while when I hear a woman says let's just be friends I want to say to her now no thank you I have enough female friends. I stopped trying to win the approval of females because I use to find that no matter what I did for one she wasn't satisified. If you told a woman they liked you then they would make up a lie saying I've got a boyfriend or that I'm too busy. Now I almost at times think like the rap song in the 90's by Positive K called I Got A Man. I almost want to tell them what's your man got to do with me. I feel sorry for guys who like a woman only to hear the phrase let's just be friends. Some of the ones I liked and became friends with only to turn around later and act like there too good to hang out with you and to those females I would say it's there loss. Can you turn a woman who is your friend into more sure. How to do that I don't really have a clue at this point in time because if I did I would be dating one of them. If there are any guys out there who can relate to this subject then leave a comment. If there are any females who would like to leave a comment on this subject then come and comment. The conversation is open to all.
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2 comments:
Perhaps the problem is not with the woman, but with you. After reading a few of your posts, it's pretty clear that you have a very outdated view of the way relationships work. I'm sure you're a very nice guy with only the best of intentions. I think you need to take a microscope to your views. Men and women are equal. It's not only the woman's job to cook, clean, and raise kids.
I do agree but most of the time its women who generally cook and clean. I think men need to appreciate that. On this topic though so often a guy like a woman and treats her great only to hear the phrase Let's just be friends. While yes I guess being her friend is better than nothing its more difficult when you truly care for her. Im a bit old fashioned and I don't agree too much with the times. Is it always the woman's job to cook and clean no it isn't. You actually gave me an idea for one of my next topics.
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