Women and there slacker boyfriends or husbands.

I am so often amazed at some of the relationships I see in this country. What really gets me the most is when a woman is going to work and working two to three jobs. Why you may ask this happens. The reason I believe is because some of these ladies meet these guys who don't want to go out and look for a job. If you go out there and look for one and can't find one that is one thing but when you are so stinking lazy and refuse to at least try for one then its another story. A part of me feels sorry for these ladies but then when they chose to stay in the relationship then there not doing themselves any justice. I personally think that a woman that is in this kind of relationship should leave her boyfriend. If she is married to this guy then she should encourage him to go and look for a job. A woman should not have to work but if she wants to she should only have to work one job. She shouldn't have to work two or more jobs to support her slacker boyfriend. What is even worse is if they have kids together and he refuses to work. If a man doesn't want to go out and work he should at least do something from home to try and generate some cash. These slacker men need to realize that if you don't work you don't eat. I think the alternative group Offspring says it best about slacker men Why Don't You Get A Job. I would like to hear your opinions about this whether you agree with me or disagree with me on this. I like to know what you think.

Men and there egos

What is with some of us guys with our egos? We have this macho attitude and acting all tough all the time. Im not saying we shouldn't be tough and manly but there is a difference between confident and arrogant. People who are arrogant tend to think there better than you and tend to think they don't need anybody. People who are confident know that they are just as good as the next guy but doesn't display an overboard cocky attitude about it. Why is it too when we mess up in a relationship we sometimes think we don't need to apoligize or that real men don't have to say I'm sorry. I'm sorry but the last time I've heard falling in love usually means you have to say sorry to your wife, girlfriend or fiance alot. Im confident but Im also man enough to say Im sorry to a woman if I know I did something wrong. It also amazes me when a man says I don't need her and then later is begging to have her back. It's that deadly sin pride that tends to get in the way in relationships. Men need to learn this when it comes to women even if your right your wrong. To all the men who have a hot wife and who cooks cleans and loves you be grateful for it. She could leave you for someone else who will appreciate her. So appreciate her and try not to take her for granted. If you do take her for granted man up say your sorry and try not to do it again. Not that there is anything wrong with a woman wanting a man who is finacially secure or has muscles but if thats all your looking for in a relationship you will be screwed. If you want that look for a man who has that but also has a decent heart. I admit ladies us men sometimes let our egos get in the way. I want to hear what you think on this subject so to all the ladies and all the guys send your comments and tell me your opinion on this.