Men and there egos

What is with some of us guys with our egos? We have this macho attitude and acting all tough all the time. Im not saying we shouldn't be tough and manly but there is a difference between confident and arrogant. People who are arrogant tend to think there better than you and tend to think they don't need anybody. People who are confident know that they are just as good as the next guy but doesn't display an overboard cocky attitude about it. Why is it too when we mess up in a relationship we sometimes think we don't need to apoligize or that real men don't have to say I'm sorry. I'm sorry but the last time I've heard falling in love usually means you have to say sorry to your wife, girlfriend or fiance alot. Im confident but Im also man enough to say Im sorry to a woman if I know I did something wrong. It also amazes me when a man says I don't need her and then later is begging to have her back. It's that deadly sin pride that tends to get in the way in relationships. Men need to learn this when it comes to women even if your right your wrong. To all the men who have a hot wife and who cooks cleans and loves you be grateful for it. She could leave you for someone else who will appreciate her. So appreciate her and try not to take her for granted. If you do take her for granted man up say your sorry and try not to do it again. Not that there is anything wrong with a woman wanting a man who is finacially secure or has muscles but if thats all your looking for in a relationship you will be screwed. If you want that look for a man who has that but also has a decent heart. I admit ladies us men sometimes let our egos get in the way. I want to hear what you think on this subject so to all the ladies and all the guys send your comments and tell me your opinion on this.