Why i think guys act tough

Many times you may hear this guy is a jerk and he can't show his emotions. I sit here and think of random stuff about relationships and love. Why do I think that guys act tough? I will tell you I feel that sometimes guy are pressured to be the stronger person. So if a guy shows his emotions he feels that he is being weak a wimp or a wuss whatever you want to call it. Sometimes I don't think its that a man doesn't show emotion its that maybe he's afraid to. Guys don't show their emotions sometimes I feel because they are with afraid that if they finally do his girlfriend, lover or wife will leave him. Another reason I feel that guys act tough at times is because of society pressures. If a man tries to show emotion like crying then some would say he is gay. I believe in the saying it takes a bigger man to cry. Does that mean he should throw a fit and act like a baby? I feel that the answer is no. What I am saying is crying is a great way to release inner pain that you are feeling. So ladies please understand that sometimes we don't want to show emotion because we don't want you to think we are less than a man. I also want to clear something up I don't want you ladies to think I feel it's your fault because its not. Some guys really do care and while we like to be strong we just don't want you to think less of us guys when we do show emotion. I think sometimes we act tough because we want to be brave for you ladies and make you feel safe and secure with us. Some moments I admit I feel afraid and sometimes a hug makes everything better. If I would act tough its only so you don't feel that I'm an insecure wimp. If you have comments about this post please send them my way. I love to hear your intake on this. Send me comments whether you agree or disagree with this. I sometimes love a good debate. Thank you for reading my relationship and love blog.